Can you trust gemini men

His trust is not going to be easy to get, but once you get the trust from a Gemini, you can always trust your life with him in a relationship. Valerie Stitt lives in New York as a professional freelance writer, blogger, and content marketer.

Follow Valerie on her health blog, Halfmile Fitness. Proper Skin Treatment for the Pisces Woman. Breaking down essential oils: When and why to use them. Username or Email Address. Remember Me. From Morethanglam. Valerie Stitt , 4 years ago 0 3 min read It is hard to trust a Gemini man Many people believe that a Gemini man is a pathological liar, but this is not always true. Valerie Stitt. Tags astrology dating distracted focus Gemini Man horoscope relationship sex sign zodiac. If Gemini's become "bored" within the relationship, they will almost certainly move on, often with no concept of the devastation they cause, so keeping it fresh and alive over the long term is crucial to holding on to a romantic relationship with a Gemini On good days, he will be charming and gracious, but on bad days he can be moody and even cruel.

I believe Gemini men like the novelty more than they like the actual partnership. After that night I did not go anywhere with him for the next 5 years. Everything we did was separete while all the time I was hoping that he would miss me he was cheating with other women and most 30 years younger than him. I'm hurting so bad but for now I have decided to stay cause he pays all the bills and I got some nice things out of catching him.

I plan on leaving soon as I get up on my feet and can handle things financially. I wish I would have listened to his ex-wife when she told me to RUN!! I kept calling him.. I thought its ok he will surely contct me once he settles in d new place.. I m still wondering wat went wrong dat just suddenly he CUT off our friendship?? I end up caling him n being a fool again n again.. Gals out there, please be aware of gemini men..

SICK ppl they are.. They are the worst people.. Gemini are schmuck ready to cheat any number of gals by: Anonymous they are definitely no for long term relationships. If you are ready to give chance then you might end up loosing trust on yourselves. To tell you these creatures are not meant to be trusted. They are ready to take advantage to the fullest and deceive you in the end making you accused in front of every loved one's of your. He was sticking to me for his money and physical needs, i did not notice this earlier.

If I catch him cheating I will leave in a snap, Im not playing his game and at the end of the day I look at it as his lost because he invested way more into me than I invested into him so it would be his lost not mine, The best advice I can give is to be very aware they will cheat if they can,they will flirt and they really just can not be trusted.

When you first meet them, they're charming, a magnetic conversationalist, fun, funny and smart. A real charmer When you first start having sex with him, it will be good because they have a high sex drive. I'm a Scorpio and I became entranced by my enigmatic Gemini. Our sex was amazing. We did it every single day, going at it xs daily. He often told me that I was the best he'd ever had and he had many.

We got married. He was an excellent provider, truly fiscally responsible. He could and would exceed at whatever challenge he thought of. Thinking of our relationship, it was our wild hot lust for sex, good food and laughter that kept us going.

He's a harmless flirt and any woman will find him irresistible. You will know when a Gemini man really loves you because he will reveal ONLY to you his most ugliest qualities and it will be those qualities that will make you run away without EVER looking back. I swear he has no emotions or feelings and he is sex crazy.

No matter how long you have been friends with them, they act cool, cold and with controlled emotions, as if you are a stranger.. He admitted it himself that 'everything he does he does for a reason' He has this girlfriend he has been having a sexual relationship with. She has written on FB that they have sex and are a couple. She tagged pics of him and her as a couple on FB. His friends and cousins have clicked 'like' to acknowlegde his relationship with her..

He's got no shame to lie even when faced with facts and evidence. He got swept away by his female'close friend' the gf and her friends who planned a summer of fun, parties, bikinis, beach and sex galore with him as the focus of attention. As a result he decided he didn't want friends like me but more like her. So he picked a fight out of nothing, made it out it was my fault and he ended it. He cut me off for 6mths.

No contact. No more friend. When the summer and parties ended and just when i had given up.. He was back. Conclusion: Gemini men will sell their own mother for a bunch of hoes who will give them what they want.

They are not loyal Enjoyed the comments I am a Scorpio with Libra rising. Born in the year of the Horse I love my freedom and variety of experience too. But I also love and respect being in a good relationship. I fell in love love at first sight with a Gemini I met while traveling.

Well, it was "attraction at first sight" which turned into love the more I thought about him. Not that he deserved it - or had earned it - by any means. He came onto me and I was very attracted to him. I told him I needed a relationship and I tried to start one through conversation, writing to him, etc. He was extremely sexy and good looking and confident in his abilities with women. I met him again on another trip. Still in love with him. He was so handsome and charming and fun in the beginning and I loved being with him but then he turned cold when he figured out that he wasn't going to get what he wanted.

I told him that I was looking for something real I wanted some type of relationship with him - not a "hit and run". I'm so past "one night stands" in my life. He became so cold, moody and sullen. He didn't even try to be nice I'm still trying to figure out the magnetic attraction I had toward this man. Every time I look at his picture I feel the same attraction to him. When I was with him, every cell in my body rejoiced from being near him It's been many years since I've had such a strong attraction to a man I come into contact with hundreds of men all the time.

There was something different about the way I felt with this man that hit me on such a deep level. It wasn't just sex - I felt a connection of the minds too. I think the fact that he's moved on to different women means that he's forgotten me and totally missed the magic that could have been between us. I still think about him while looking for someone else and found myself here reading about Geminis. Actually, "RUN" was my first intinct when I met him.

No regrets though. They r not even fit to be frends.. Worst experience with a gemini man by: Sag Lady I dated a gemini man for 4. He claimed he was just visiting a friend. I didn't even find out they had slept together til months later. He lived across the hall from me in our building so I saw him daily which made it very difficult to cut off contact. I also found out he talked to his ex about our rel constantly, putting me down, criticising me, etc on the phone and online.

He then decided to date some girl he met at work,so we broke it off for a couple months. This was the worst situation I have ever been through, it was literally the yr from hell. I was so angry with him and her ,I broke it off and took revenge on him by hooking up with other men to get even. He was also seeing other girls during this time which really pissed me off.

I eventually moved out on my own, but he came back again after things settled. Since I didn't find anyone else I wanted to be with during that time,I took him back again. He lied about meeting up with girls, seeing his exes, talking to girls online, joining dating sites I was mortified, but also jealous.

Even though we weren't officially together, he still treated me like I didn't matter. It was ludacris behaviour looking back now.. I thought I had truly loved my ex. We tried going on a vacation, but it didn't make things better. I just completely stopped caring about him or us being together. I broke it off the final time that summer, we ended up meeting a few months down the road but I said I could not be in any sort of relationship with him. I am still looking for mister right Why is everyone bashing us gemini men?

Its sad because not all of us men are like this , theres always gonna be a person with problems despite there sign. We geminis can be very loyal , I myself was with an aquaruis for a year and was complently loyal.

It was only when i felt she was cheating that i started to talk to other women but even then i still couldent push myself to do it.

She hurt me in so many ways yet i know she loves me because after all of that she begs for me because of all she have done. Im trying to push myself to forgive but then the evil twin takes over.

To wrap it up its like this. We know what were doing and we try to act on it yet its very difficult because our minds are constantly changing , you have to be able to have patience and understanding with our kind , yet we will love you to the fullest of our being if you let us.

We use intellect over emotion , you gotta understand all people and geminis are diffrent, dont judge all because of a few bad apples. Selfish and greedy people. I'm stuck in a relation ship witha gemini and i know the only reason he is with me is for a passport yet i cant get rid of him.. Gemini are bogus looser and what con men are made of.

My Gemini is the love of my life. He is my soulmate. He's a great father, loving husband, wonderful provider. He goes without, to afford me and my kids the luxuries we want He's great in bed and patient with me because I'm always too tired to do the ded.

Maybe he should be running from ME! In all seriousness, I believe everyone has different contributing factors, including their upbringing, to consider. My Gemini grew up in an abusive home with a mom who cheated on his Dad numerous times, even having a child with another man, only to get back together with my father in law. My husband HATES his mom and all her whoreish ways, so he learned he could never be that way as he grew up.

He hates all cheating spouses with a passion. He doesn't understand how people could do that to one another, because he witnessed firsthand how sickening this was growing up. I guess I bagged myself a traumatised Gemini, which apparently is the way to go! I found a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. This is All True! Gemini men are horrible. They lie, cheat and are so selfishly motivated it defies all logic and ethics. I made the mistake of marrying a Gemini.

I never dated a Gemini man before and the relationship before the marriage was picture perfect. Just as the others said, they do everything to charm you and win you over. Once the chase is done and they have you - your life is over if you've fallen for them. My husband went from the nicest man in the world to a perfect depraved stranger. He lied, cheated and spent more effort trying to cover his tracks than work on the marriage.

After 3 years of trying to work on things, I walked Since then he has spent day after day chasing me, more BS, more lies and more fake hysterical attacks about not being able to function without me If you choose to ignore everything said here and go forward with a relationship or marriage with a Gemini I would never get involved with one again - ever.

Prepare for an absolute disaster if you do decide to go forward with a relationship or marriage with a gemini man. Think yours in an exception? At the end of the day you will reflect on these posts and ask yourself why you didn't run. My experience with a Gemini Male by: Anonymous I was with this guy for 12 yrs, dont get me wrong he was nice kind told me he loved me everyday did what evere I wanted him to do for me, we were together all of the time To everyone they thought he was the stand-up guy we have 3 children, he always got them whatever their little hearts desired, but he is a big liar and cheater, and an alcoholic.

We were the couple everybody wanted to be You have to be a very strong womean to deal with a guy thats a Gemini and thats real!!! I also have another Gemini guy friend and I can see thrru him already so im just going to run game on his ass and get what I want from him, hell mama didnt raise no fool!

As the freedom lover, he easily gives others their own freedom and expects the same in return. This guy is surely not constricted type but can become possessive sometimes. Is there any possibility for him to come back after a breakup? He is extremely loving and caring in love! If you are seeking an ideal man to date, then the Gemini guy will be an excellent option. Though he is too active and gets fed up with routine, he is a reliable partner.

Whenever you need him, you will be there for you immediately. Nonetheless, he would do the same to his friends, and this often makes his partner feel confused and jealous. When a Gemini man falls in love , he becomes a very loyal person to his woman. While there are some bad seeds, there are also bad seeds from ALL signs. Thank you for sharing from your own perspective as a Gemini man. However, you cannot speak for all Gemini. Not all are the same. We all have all 12 signs in our charts which makes us all very unique.

Again, I thank you for chiming in but no one should make any decisions without fully getting to know someone no matter what their sign is. I am in love with a Gemini man. But, I am a Gemini woman and I feel we are like identical little snowflakes…loving passionately, deeply yet with a certain superficiality. We are the same. I am a flirt, I like men but there is always only one man for me when I am in love.

I would never be unfaithful. But I do wonder about him sometimes. Neither of us is entirely free and I wonder if that is exciting to him On the other hand I have been married to a Sagittarian and a Libran and never been loved as I am now. Men in general have the tendency to stray and be thoughtless. But this Gemini man is kind and thoughtful, always. Thank you for your input. This article in particular is the darker side they may posses but they may not.

Moon signs and Rising signs may differ which causes their personality to also differ. I hope you find happiness and resolve in your own personal situation.

Scorpio woman here with a Gemini man. It was like pulling teeth just to get him to intro me to his friends and it had been yrs! I think he had something going on with his friends live in sister but of course I cant prove it but I think she was the reason he didnt want me to meet them just yet. She is someone he was always complimenting online, so I am suspicious. Now everytime he goes over there I will wonder if she is there as well.

The love is real even if some ppl think Scorpio is fake! Gemini men like to keep some things to themselves because it helps them maintain their sense of independence. When you do want to know things, ask him. I have been dating a gemini and I am a virgo…he was so sweet kind and caring then he flipped a switch because he didnt get his way. I have honestly never seen someone intentionally hurt someone like that.

Because I was not with him he sent me a picture of his a girlfriend in his bed and called me all kinds of nasty horrible things. It was a completely different person. I love him and didnt understand the behavior until now. He wants to try and work it out…but me being the virgo and I am very hurt and analyzing every scenario, because I am definitely pondering the thought of what he would have done to me had I been standing in front of him that night.

He was very narcissistic, rude, abusive and told me things that were horrible. Not all are like this I dont suppose but I swear for that few hours he was possessed and I did not know him at all. No, not all Gemini men are alike.

That being said, please be careful and look out for your own well being sweetheart. I am married to a Gemini 20 plus years. We ran a business together very successful. He began to blame everything that happened in the business on me.

He let employees walk all over me. He let clients yell at me. He ran money through the business for his mistress, he has accused of ruining him after I found out about his affair. I was out of the business at this point. Retired due to health reasons. Which do not affect me sexually. He withdrew all types of intimacy about 2 years ago and has tired to alienate his family, friends and step children. I am attractive educated loyal many men in my community admire me.

The whole community has seen us as the power couple. Behind my back for the 11 years he has been telling everybody that I am dying or that I am crazy, meanwhile I am working 10 hour a day. The affair started 11 years ago, she is an Aquarius he given tons of money over the years that I found out about. I am trying to save our marriage we are in counseling he has done nothing the counselor has asked him to do. He just wants to divorce me period but has not left the house.

His bad side has gotten worse lots of aggressive behavior towards me. In the midst of this his new employer said he needed to talk to HR a complaint had been filed against him for sexual misconduct for other things now the affair. The next day they fired him. I am a Pisces a good one loyal not a liar not a quitter. So divorce is now on the back burner.

He is the love of my life, do these guys ever pull their heads out of their ass. He says he will never touch me again sexually. He loves me but he is not in love. Will he ever take responsibility. And he rarely gets mad at someone if it is not really their fault. So just meditate and see how u can fix that and start over.

And he lets the dark twin out, it because his patience is over. And it takes time and effort to bring the nice twin back to life. You may want to consider your options and figure out if you really think this guy is worth it. He did and without you. You probably need to work on your own life path and find your own way.

I wish you all the best! My gemini man perused me, was kind, charming, passionate, attentive. Each time I began trusting him he would suddenly pull away, within 3 to 4 months. The cycle has happened 4 times over two years.

He is secretive!. He tells me virtually nothing about his family, friends, job, or what he does during his free time. This makes me not trust him. What is he hiding.. I have tried everything to try to get him to talk to me about these subjects.

If I was looking from the outside in I would say he is seeing other women cause there is no way he can go on so long as he does not seeing me and not having sex.

There is such a connection and fun when we r together. He says he likes having me all to himself without having people interfere with us. He says he wishes he could see me more often but it never works out. I know he has mood problems cause I saw he takes the natural Patric vitamins that stabilise mood swings.

He does usually have a calm manner but he has sparked in anger when I tried to push him to communicate on the phone but then he always felt bad about it later and apologized. I want so much to believe in him as a good sensitive person who is just so conflicted inside and has no clear direction.

I always tell him what great potential he has.. He accepted to see me to talk about it and he spent the whole time hugging me and giving me compliments and how much he cared and thought I was special.

So contradictory cause since then he refuses to see me but still answers my calls. He asked for some time space and I said fine have a good holiday and new year. I usually give hi. So much space. We never see each other more then once a week and sometimes less. He knows it means I am giving up and will not contact him again. I have decided to never give in to him again cause he is sooooo good at seducing me! I hate him and love him and these feelings make me so eternally sad.

I have no family where I live except my two kids, I wish I could have more with him cause he is unlike any man I ever met. But I know if he is not willing to commit then I deserve better. Bless you always …. Releasing him is a good way to go. You deserve someone who is there for you and wants to have a life with you. Do you and do what you love to do in your life.