Why do soulmates run away
They surrender to it and go along willingly for the ride. And what a ride it is!! Everything is wonderful. And they are both on cloud nine. But then the fear manifests in many ways. How can this be real? What if this person breaks my heart , how can I survive something like that? These thoughts, and others, set the stage for them to run. They believe removing themselves physically will break the connection, or help them regain some control over their thoughts and emotions.
They want to prove to themselves they are stronger than the connection. For the one on the receiving end, this is devastating. They want to chase after them, beg them, explain to them, or convince them what they have is real.
They want to reassure them they would never hurt them. Sadly, this rarely works. Usually it has the opposite affect and the runner goes even further way. They usually cut off all forms of communication because they are not ready to listen. That is not where they are on their journey.
It may not make any sense to you at the moment. And it may in fact take months or years to understand. But in retrospect you will have the clarity you need to understand why they walked out of your life.
There are many reasons soulmates can walk out of your life. One the biggest reasons soulmates take off is due to their fear. A soulmate relationship will come with very close emotional intimacy. In the beginning it feels incredible to both of you.
But as time goes on, one of you could become fearful of the connection. To have that close a bond to another human being can make the heartiest of souls feel vulnerable. Others could fear the loss of control. To some folks, this can be quite threatening. Many people find vulnerability tough to work through. It makes them feel susceptible to being hurt, deeply. You may be willing to fight for the relationship, where they take off.
A soulmate can also decide if they wish to break their soulmate contract and move their life in a different direction. They have simply chosen to reject your soulmate connection. And they may not even know why, they just may desire to take a different path.
You just have to put on your big girl or big boy pants and take back your power. But millions of people, throughout the centuries, have this same experience. If your the ghosted party how do you cope with it? This post is excellent! This describes exactly what I have been going through with my SoulMate for a few years. We get to a point where he has to leave, and then uses his child as an excuse, and then ghosts. It is so hurtful emotionally and I have been trying to just let it go and let the connection take its course.
My question is, how does one learn to trust their SM after the ghosting? Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. Notify me of follow-up comments by email. Notify me of new posts by email. This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed. Original content here is published under these license terms: X License Type: Read Only License Abstract: You may read the original content in the context in which it is published at this web address.
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