Why is herpes such a big deal

When I treat it like a normal thing that normal people talk about, it suddenly becomes—you guessed it—normal. Because I speak so candidly about this, other people tend to feel safe speaking about their sexual health too. I was surprised how many of my friends responded with their own tales, divulging suspicions, diagnoses, and test results with the same openness.

In my book, this can only be a good thing. Talking about sexual health is the path toward better sexual health! Before I got herpes, I was terrified of ever contracting it, for fear no one would ever want to have sex with me again.

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Through her writings, she takes great pleasure in delving into conscious community, sexuality, communication, and relationships, and loves to help others to do the same. By Sarah Burke. By Amanda Chatel. Because of that, says Dr. Johnston, it can be very difficult to identify the source. For others, symptoms can appear as early as six days after infection, and can include pain and blisters in the genital area, pain with urination, and fever, chills, headache, and lymph node swelling.

Even less frequently, infants can pick up a herpes infection from skin-to-skin or mouth-to-skin contact with another person. These are serious concerns, because newborns can develop dangerous or even fatal complications when infected with the herpes virus. Besides Valtrex, the FDA has also approved famciclovir Famvir as a one-day treatment of symptomatic herpes. To get our top sexual health stories delivered to your inbox, sign up for the Health Hookup newsletter. The resulting data showed that 28 percent of respondents with genital herpes said they are not telling their sexual partners about their condition beforehand.

Fifty-eight percent of respondents said they would not be intimate with someone who has the virus, exhibiting just how culturally deep-seated the stigmatization remains.

Count Erica Spera among the growing number of advocates working to change that. After pulling herself out of depression, she founded a support group for people with genital herpes and, later, co-created a podcast, Shooters Gotta Shoot , where she openly discusses dating with the virus. As the world sees a brightening light at the end of the pandemic tunnel, perhaps there will be less anxiety about COVID, and more civil, productive discussions about how to treat those with easily transmissible viruses.

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