How old is my daughter
She doesn't like to socialize with her classmates as she feels they are too immature. I really think it is time for some serious therapy. Any suggestions would greatly be appreciated. This sounds like a difficult situation. Caring a lot about hair and makeup and how she looks is normal for her age. Unfortunately, these images in the media are often suggestive and provocative. This is where you as her parent come in. Talk to your daughter about your concerns.
Consider offering a compromise — maybe you will take her shopping to find some new clothes that she thinks are cool and you also think are okay for a twelve-year-old to wear.
And remember, you are the parent, so you get to decide what clothes you buy her. However, it is important for her to have a few similar aged friends whom she can connect and bond with.
Encourage her to spend more time with people her age. Maybe you could ask her what she would like to do to have fun with friends, and then invite one or two kids she thinks might also like to do that. You should also explain to her that she might then need to do some things that they like to do, because being flexible and being able to give and take is part of being a good friend. You also said that your daughter wants to be older in general. This is pretty understandable — a lot of us felt that way as kids.
If you remember feeling that way, let her know. Try to emphasize the good things about being twelve. For example, as a twelve year old she has less responsibility, school is manageable, and her only real job is to have fun. Finally, it is possible that your daughter may be reaching out for some extra attention.
I recommend that you and her father each separately spend some quality one-on-one time with her. You can do something age-appropriate that she wants to do, and maybe make it a regular event. This calculator is based on the most common age system.
In this system, age grows at the birthday. Most western countries use this age system. In some cultures, age is expressed by counting years with or without including the current year. In one of the traditional Chinese age systems, people are born at age 1 and the age grows up at the Traditional Chinese New Year instead of birthday.
In some situations, the months and days result of this age calculator may be confusing, especially when the starting date is the end of a month. For example, we all count Feb. However, there are two ways to calculate the age from Feb. If thinking Feb. If thinking both Feb.